Comments on: The Blame Game – Public Insecurities and the Perfectly Curated Instagram Feed. https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/ Live. Love. Travel. Fri, 09 Feb 2018 16:16:48 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.2.2 By: Sweet as Fiction https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1961 Fri, 09 Feb 2018 16:16:48 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1961 I couldn’t agree more! Our work is our art and that message was somehow lost along the way. None of us are perfect and in no way does our IG or social media showcase all of this or all of us (including the bad days). I think if people realized that they wouldn’t feel the need to compare. <3

Sweet as Fiction xo
sweetasfiction.com

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By: LAFOTKA https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1950 Wed, 31 Jan 2018 23:00:00 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1950 Such a great topic honey. So glad you really dived into it. So try about comparison – we should not compare our Chapter 1 to someone else’s Chapter 20. So well said. It’s tricky though because although our feed is lovely and “perfect” it’s also good to show the no so perfect side sometimes. 🙂

Tatyana x
LAFOTKA

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By: Elegant Duchess https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1949 Wed, 31 Jan 2018 21:51:52 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1949 great posy hun, couldn’t agree more!

http://www.elegantduchess.com/2018/01/30/3-reasons-your-wardrobe-needs-a-teddy-bear-coat/

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By: Keri https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1947 Wed, 31 Jan 2018 14:34:36 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1947 I think this message is so important! As content creators, we feel we need to provide high-quality, beautiful photos and we shouldn’t get ridiculed for this. However, I do believe social media has been having a negative impact on people’s mental health and it’s important to teach people that social media isn’t a true representation of life or a person. It’s simply a creative space.. Loved reading this post, girl. Keep it up!

Enclothed Cognition

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By: Maryam https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1944 Wed, 31 Jan 2018 04:52:34 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1944 Such a great post girl! I totally agree. we need to stop blaming and teach self love. World would be a better place with more love!

xx, Maryam
http://www.glamandposh.com

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By: Kamen Kamenov https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1943 Tue, 30 Jan 2018 17:01:56 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1943 ❤❤❤]]> Omg that is so insightful my darling… the post just made my day. I loved the vibes… the patience and basically all the truths you are referring to. Thank you so much my darling. ❤❤❤❤

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By: Bianca https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1941 Tue, 30 Jan 2018 15:35:30 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1941 You took the words right out of my mouth!! Great read!

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By: Anthony @oh_anthonio https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1937 Tue, 30 Jan 2018 03:13:37 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1937 Such a well rounded and comprehensive post! You nailed everything and I agree with this so much!

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By: Hillory https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1936 Mon, 29 Jan 2018 16:23:24 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1936 SO MUCH YES TO THIS GIRL!! I feel like we’ve talked about this sooooo much, but people really need to stop comparing themselves to others in order to be truly happy. Of course, people are attempting to curate beautiful feeds on their Instagram, taking photos is an art form after all. I feel like if people are taking it this seriously, they need to take a step back and realize that it’s not real life.

xo,

H

http://firsttimethings.com/

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By: Didier https://kirstenwendlandt.com/the-blame-game/#comment-1935 Mon, 29 Jan 2018 16:18:13 +0000 https://kirstenwendlandt.com/?p=2508#comment-1935 Gosh there has been so much hatred towards bloggers lately eh? To be honest I just think that people have been increasingly frustrated with the algorithm and the slow growth (on the blogger side) so we have been lashing out. And on the non-blogger side, I think people just don’t understand what we do and theres a lot of jealous that steams from us getting all the “free” stuff and such. Great blog post!

-Didier
http://www.didieryhc.com

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